EX-treme Survival Guide

Your “How To” Guide for

Surviving and Thriving with Ex-Spouses

 

 

What You Absolutely Must Know In Order To Survive  An Ex-Spouse!

Dear Friend,

Are you tired of living in conflict?  Ready to move on from your divorce?  Now that your divorce is final, you do NOT have to continue arguing and fighting with your ex-spouse!

What if you don't have an ex-spouse but your partner does?  Are you confused about  how you're supposed to act toward that person? 

Alyssa Johnson, MSW,  LCSW,  has over 150 published articles both in print an on-line in various magazines and websites.  She is an expert on divorce, remarriage and step families.  She is also the author of 3 other books. on these subjects.  Alyssa is known internationally as the "go to" person for divorced parents seeking to create success in their remarriages and step families. 

Do you wish you could just have a pleasant conversation with your ex-spouse about your children and then enjoy your time alone while they are having parenting time together?

"50% of middle-class divorced couples engage in bitter, open conflict as "angry associates," or worse, "fiery foes." - The Good Divorce

One of the most common questions I get asked is "How can my ex-spouse and I get along better?"  This is also one of the most frequently discussed topics within my online community. 

There's a great desire to have some peace now that the divorce is over. 

Most people just don't have the skills to make that peace a reality...

I have put together 13 hands on skills & techniques to use in dealing with your ex-spouse or the ex-spouse of your partner.  All are meant to guide you in  achieving your unique life through creating a good co-parenting relationship with the ex-spouse .

"I recently remarried and my husband and I are committed to doing things right this time although we know we have brought a lot more into this relationship,(e.g., children, ex-spouses, etc.), than with our previous marriage.  Your comments and ideas are right on target with what we are dealing with."

– Christine

"EX-treme Survival Guide"

There are plenty of books out there that focus on bashing your ex.  Then there are those that tell you, you need to get along.  I personally, haven't run into very many that will give you the actual tools for being able to do that though.  It's mostly theory and fluff.

 

I've worked with hundreds of families who live in a constant state of anxiety about when the next rage-filled explosion will occur. 

 

*  New spouses are fed up with all the arguing.

*  Children are hurt time and time again when their

    parents scream in front of them.

*  You feel like you'll never be free from this tyrant you're already divorced

    from.

 

These tools will take you from a place of conflict to contentment. 

 

Are all of your ex-spouse problems going to be solved?  Maybe, maybe not - that depends on you and your ex-spouse.  What will happen, is that you will have a different outlook on the situation and you will feel more equipped to handle it without all the conflict that used to occur.

 

"I used to dread every other weekend when I'd take the kids to meet my ex-wife for their weekend visit.  She'd always try to pick a fight by making some snide comment.  The kids would end up getting upset because they knew we were about to fight.  It usually took me a few hours to calm down afterwards.  Not anymore!  I feel confident when I see her now.  I know my buttons aren't going to get pushed.  The kids are more relaxed now too because there isn't the same level of tension.  Thanks!" – Jeff  

 

This book isn't just for those who've been divorced.  It's a must have for those of you dating, engaged or married to someone who's been divorced.  Even though you don't have an ex-spouse to deal with, you still have an ex-spouse in your life - your partner's!

 

Here is just a sampling of some of the great topics covered:

How to decrease the conflict quickly   
How to have minimal contact w/the ex
Why it's important to "get over" your ex
Accepting that things are uncomfortable
Why YOUR attitude is so important
How to avoid feeling jealous
Remembering the ex-spouse's role
 

If you implement the strategies and skills taught in EX-treme Survival Guide, I guarantee that you will feel more confident and capable in dealing with with an ex-spouse.  No more frustration and kicking yourself over how you reacted to their antagonizing antics!

I'm so certain that you will love EX-treme Survival Guide that it comes with a money-back guarantee. If you are unsatisfied for any reason, send it back for a full refund. No questions asked.

 

"My husband's ex-wife was making our life miserable.  I always felt so hopeless when I'd see how upset he'd get.  I just wanted to scream at the woman half the time!  No more!  My husband and I were blessed to find EX-treme Survival Guide. We started using some of the skills right away.  I'm now able to support my husband instead of cause him more stress in dealing with his ex-wife. Life's a lot better." - Colleen

Who Am I and Why
Should You Listen To Me?

My name is Alyssa Johnson and I'm in my second decade of service to families and couples.  Over the past several years, I've focused my career specifically on working with divorced parents. 

I am the founder of RemarriageSuccess.com where we concentrate on helping divorced parents achieve the remarriage and step family of their dreams by providing them with education and support. 

My passion for helping prevent re-divorces has led me to be the author of over 150 published articles, 4 books, numerous interviews and I facilitate an active online community for divorced and remarried parents.

All in all, I am regarded as one of the foremost experts in remarriage and step families.  In addition, all of my work comes from an affirming Christian perspective. 

Because of all this, you can rest assured that I will provide you with high quality answers to your biggest questions about surviving and thriving with an ex-spouse.

Here's What People Have to Say

About Alyssa's Other Products:

 

"I felt your product was very informative. Your comments and ideas are right are target with what we are dealing with.  It is refreshing to know that others like us are out there trying to succeed with all the obstacles that we are faced with."  - Christine
 

"My fiance and I really enjoyed the book.

It had a lot of information that we were interested in and thankfully had pursued with each other before coming upon the info you provided. It showed us we were on the right track. Still it was a good, confident feeling to know we had gone over these things and had pretty well covered all the important bases you mentioned.  We both have a strong desire to research and apply all the things required to make this work the 2nd time around."  - Bill

"My fiancé and I have read the book and are currently going through the workbook. Thankfully we have both spent the time necessary to heal and figure out who we are and what we really want this time around.  The workbook is indispensable and provides many thought provoking questions to explore." - Dana

"I found the book a solid value.  I just started the workbook.  The process seems solid." - David

"I found this very informative and helpful.  I appreciate your dedication to helping new families start off on the right foot." - Barb

"I thought the information was helpful and stirred good conversation between us.  We are both very committed to this
remarriage, and I appreciated having your website as a resource." - Margie

 As a "Thank You" for purchasing

 

"EX-treme Survival Guide"

I want to offer you these bonuses:

For those who purchase the e book (IT IS NOT AVAILABLE IN STORES) you will also receive a FREE subscription to our highly popular Tip of the Week.  The Tip offers you several great articles every Friday afternoon focusing on life after divorce.  You'll receive great information, tips and resources to help you achieve the remarriage & step family of your dreams.

In addition, I've added something a little special to the book.  Getting information is helpful, but it will only take you so far.  At the end of each of the 13 strategies, there is a "Reflections" section.  These will challenge you to begin implementing what you've just learned.  This isn't a book to passively read!  It's all about making some real changes.

 

Order this great book of skills and techniques for making life more manageable with an ex-spouse for only $27

 

SPECIAL BONUSES:
 

If you order EX-treme Survival Guide today you will also receive a copy of my best-selling collection  "What Is Step Family Preparation?" ($14.97 value).

 

To order an instantly downloadable copy of this ebook via our secure server right now, click here

Warmly,

Alyssa Johnson

 

P. S. Even if you decide you don't want to keep the EX-treme Survival Guide ebook, the bonuses are yours to keep. You have nothing to lose - but a lot to gain. 

 
 
 

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